Help, Boy Problem in School?

Question

Okay, so I have this problem with a boy at school he used to do little things to annoy me but today was really bad!
Normally, I sit next too him only in 2 lessons in school, he will hit me hard with a ruler leaving marks on my arms and legs he trys to stick a pencil down the back of my trousers and he always shouts at me for starring at him when I wasn't even looking at him, he is a very strong boy and I am nothing comapred to him, the teacher that was teaching one of the lessons I was sitting with him by tells him to stop flirting with me because he will just stare at me for ages and I know it and I just try not look because it will make me uncomfortable, he asks me sexual questions that make me feel awkward.
His friend has also done these too me, but he was feeling my leg and bottom and slapping me with a ruler again, he left a bruise going around my arm which my mother noticed when I weard a short vest top, she asked where it was from I just said I didn't know.
But today, the first boy I mentioned I was walking down a tight stair case with 3 other girl-friends, we were walking down it and he came through the door, there was nobody else around just us on the dark stair case, 2 of my friends were behind me and one was infront another friend of mine who the boy also does stuff too, he pushed her against the railing of the stairs (inside the building) he did it multiple of times, he then said 'Oooh, Naomi...' he then jumped down a couple of steps and started doing it to me barging into me, he then went back up to my friend and then did it to her, the friend who was infront of me whispered something then he came back down to us, the other 2 friends ran back out the other leaving me and my friend, the boy went back onto me, he grabbed my wrist and twisted it around he kept doing it and I was screaming really loud but nobody could hear me, he then went to push me down the steps but I pulled back causing more pain on my wrist he then dragged me up the stairs and through the door still gripping onto my wrist there were people outside now in the school corridor I was still screaming from pain he pushed me into a classroom and then ran off, my friend kept asking if I was okay and I said im fine I now have bruises around my wrist and red marks.

But the thing is, I can't deal with that pain and also I was Sexually Abused by another boy in my Year Group who then got referred to the Police and he haven't bothered me since, but that took a big turn on my life and I started cutting my wrists at that point.
It came to a habit but I now getting help as I told my teachers about the problem after 1 Year and they are helping me with the self-harm, but I started the self-harm because of the sexual-abuse and now these things are coming in and I think they are going to wreck how good everything has been going since I told.
I don't want to tell, he really scares me and is super strong, he can hurt me easily! I need help!?

Answer 1

in my opinion you should really talk to you parents. this cant keep going or who knows what he will do! please talk to your mom or dad, or an adult who can help you. or even a counselor

Answer 2

earlier than doing something you will have to ask the boy if he can gradual dance and if making a decision to kiss him do exactly it when you think your like to him is the primary kiss that point. when you think anything will make you get stuck then take a look at asking the boy if you'll be able to kiss or now not and someplace else or yet another day. he would possibly be given it. and do not drive him to do matters he does now not recognise

Answer 3

They like you, and normally I would have said oh this is cute, but no these boys are taking it too far, hit back if he's really hurting you. And tell the teacher or counselor everything. This is outrageous. Tell your mom too hun. Good Luck.