Why am I useless at nearly everything I do (Examples in description)?

Question

I seem to be useless at nearly everything. I am going to give some examples below so you know what I'm on about:

1- Darts. I quite like darts. I wouldn't say that I am a big fan, but I do like to watch it, and I also have a darts board in my garage. Anyway, I am an only child, and don't have mates over much, so don't really have anyone to play with, so I play by myself. The past 2 days, I have played a mini tournament with my mum, who knows nothing about darts. We would throw 3 darts each, and whoever scored the most got a point. We did first to 10 point, and both days, she beat me! This is a women who knows nothing about darts, and it is supposed to be one of my hobbies. You can't even say she got lucky either, because she beat me two days straight.

2- Football. I love Football, both to watch, and to play. I sometimes go play with a mate, who brings his brother, and 3 of his mates. So there is me and my mate (both 18), his brother (15) and his brothers 3 mates (all also 15). And I am one of the worst, if not the worst, at Football when we play. My mate isn't a big Football fan, and, no offence to him, is quite fat and overweight. It is really annoying that me, somebody who loves Football, is worse that a fat overweight guy, and 3 15 year olds.

3- Video games. Another thing I love is videos games, especially FIFA 13. I play that LOADS, and I also play GTA, and COD quite often. FIFA I am average at (I have around 150 wins, 120 losses) which is pretty average, which is bad as I play it loads, and I should be better considering how often I play it. Also, I am rubbish at GTA. I do races with friends, where me and 2 mates have a competition. We will races, and where we finish in the race decides how many points we get. If we finish 1st, we get 25, 2nd we get 18, 3rd we get 15, etc. And we do 1st to 250. I nearly always seem to lose these. I am also rubbish at COD, and finish bottom of the leaderboard in every session I have just about.

4- Lessons at School. I have just finished A-levels at school, and got 2 E's, and a U. I tried hard with these exames. I did all homework, and went to nearly every revision session, while other didn't go to the revision sessions, and did better than me.

5- Driving. I have had around 60 Driving lessons, and I am still making bad mistakes at nearly every lesson I take. I also failed my test with 18 minors, 2 serious, and 2 dangerous, which is one of the worst test scores I have ever seen.

Why am I so useless at all these things?

So to some it up, I lose at darts to somebody who knows nothing about it. I am worse at Football than a fat overweight guy who doesn't even like it, and 3 15 year olds. I am rubbish at nearly all video games I play, despite loving to play them. I am rubbish in lessons at School. And I am also rubbish at driving.

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And that's only the start of it! I could probably list at least another 5 things that I am rubbish at.

Answer 1

You just haven't found your "thing" yet. Try more hobbies. Also, don't worry so much about how you compare to others, do what makes you most passionate.

Answer 2

im gonna start by saying who cares how good you are at something if your enjoying it then enjoy it stop worrying about nothing



as for driving i failed my test 4 times and passed 5th time never give up :) and relax more let the driving become natural then you wont make so many mistakes and also dont dwell on the mistake or you will make more and even the best drivers make mistakes.



And call of duty is about time spent playing it these guys who are coming 1st spend there lives on that game.

Answer 3

I have no idea maybe your cursed or maybe u spend so much time thinking negatively about your situation that when your in the situation you so focused on ******* up u actually do lol