How do you make the sickness stop after a break up?

Question

Yes i knwo stop talking to him, but no thats not working. i cant eat, hard time sleeping, ive lost 20 lbs so fa, major panic attacks. i am wondering if anyone else has gone through this and what they did to help the symptoms. it seems my stomach is hungry but something stops me from eating. Right from the begining in the morning when i go to brush my teeth i start to vomit. i feel very weak, ive tried eating but my body just makes me feel gross about it.
I was taking adavain for my panic attacks but now its getting worse, the naseau is constant. and i need to stop, i cant deal with anymore, its coming between my work, and friendship and my daughter.
anybody have any ideas
I drink, tea, and ginger ale all day. gravol does not work it immediately comes up. i drink a bottle of pepto bismal a week.
i used ot smoke pot recreationally and it has become an everyday thing because it makes the panic attacks go away, and i want to cut back, but i have nothing to help with the attacks then

Answer 1

Im sorry to hear this.... Yes, I definitely understand this pain as well when I broke up with my girlfriend of 9 years... It was miserable, and I almost lost my job/life/etc in the process... I made it thru it in the end, however....



As far as what to do about it, taking about 900mg to 1g of St. John's Wort helps temporarily. Also, talking to someone professional about it you would do allot of good as well....



If you ever want an anonymous friend to talk about it with, send me an email sometime, and I will share my experience with you as well if you want...



Good Luck and I Hope this Helps...

Answer 2

Have you tried to talk to your doctor or pastor for professional help. You maybe going though depression and most likely stress. It can cause a lot of the symptoms you are describing.



You said you were on medications before, maybe your doctor can change them to something else. I am not very big on using pot, but I won't tell you how to live your life.



You may also have an ulcer or something medical in your gut. It is a good idea to have it looked at anyway.



Get involved in something you enjoy. Sometimes you have to force yourself to have fun. I know it sounds hard to do, but find something like take a class, go to church (if that is what you are into), join a fitness group/gym, take a trip many communities have events. There are a lot of ways to get out and meet people and do different things. It will help to take you mind off the break up.



Only time will heal. You just need to take care of you.

Answer 3

Please accept this as help... I have read some of your other questions, and some of your answers... I think it is more than losing the BF... he sounded like a loser anyway, I don't want to come across as insulting, but please talk top a professional, be it your clergy, or a healthcare professional. There seems to be a weight control issue, and a dependency issue, as well as a confidence issue, and until you work on those, a relationship will be near impossible... please take no offense, but after looking at the bigger picture, there are some huge indicators, some red flags, please don't look for help, and/ or justification from the BF, any BF, at this point... seek help to adjust yourself, then relationships can flourish.

Good luck, and I mean that sincerely!

Answer 4

Only time heals a broken heart. Most women drop weight after a breakup, but they look at it as a benefit for when they start dating again.

Answer 5

thats a hard thing to deal with... and time is the only cure. find someone else to talk to, a rebound or something but dont get serious.. a rebound is a rebound. good luck there.